Answer from the “Ask an Expert” Column

Yes, at a certain age, this can be perfectly natural. Children develop in different ways: some enjoy playing with others, while others feel more comfortable exploring toys on their own. This is especially true for young children who are still learning to interact with their peers.

However, it’s important to pay attention not only to whether the child plays alone, but also to how they communicate, react to others, and whether they seek interaction in an environment where they feel comfortable.

How can parents help?

• Don’t force them to play together. Coercion can cause even more stress. Give your child time to observe the other children and get used to the situation.
• Start small. Suggest playing with one child they know in a calm setting. This may make it easier for your child to make contact than in a large group.
• Join in the play. Start by playing with your child, and then gradually invite others to join. For example, you can build a tower out of blocks together, race toy cars, or draw.
• Encourage any attempts at interaction. If your child shares a toy, imitates another child’s actions, or initiates play on their own—acknowledge it kindly, without putting too much pressure on them.
• Observe their behavior. Does your child consistently avoid social contact? Do they find it difficult to join in group activities? Do social interaction and noise cause them significant distress?

When Should You Consult a Specialist?
If your child has been avoiding social interaction for a long time, doesn’t try to share their experiences with others, has difficulty communicating, or if this causes you concern, you should discuss the situation with a child psychologist or pediatrician.

If you need a personalized consultation, we invite you to visit the “World of Opportunities” Inclusive Center. Our specialists will help you understand your specific situation and provide recommendations tailored to your child’s needs.